The Honeymoon Period!!

It's Official... I am a MARRIED WOMAN.!!

Well, July 27, 2013 has come and gone. Kyle and I very much loved our wedding, and appreciated absolutely everyone who was a part of it in any way.!! 

 I DO!!

 You could say I was a little Excited :)

We had the absolute best group of friends be a part of our Big day, even those who were not in the actual wedding party, so many people helped out with absolutely anything and everything. I truly can say that we are blessed with an awesome support system.!! More than anyone could ever expect.! 

We had these Awesome fans made because it was JULY...in TEXAS.! :)

It had everyone who was involved with the wedding party on them, and they helped everyone stay cool a little bit better.! The heat really wasn't even that bad.! We all made it out alive ;) 

OUR FIRST DANCE.. first of all I have got to give it to my husband... he dropped out of a speech class in college, because he is 100% unable to stand up infront of people and do anything when all the attention is on him..! We didnt make it a big deal to have everyone huddle around us to watch us dance because he was already soooooo nervous, but we did do something a little special to help ease his nerves a little bit.! 

We wore our TEXANS Jerseys.!!! 

It was a hugeeee hit, everyone loved it, and we got sooooo many compliments on it... our picture even got Shared on the "Houston Texans Swatt Team" Facebook page and got over 8,000 likes (we were soooooo surprised, and very glad people enjoyed it).! I know it helped Kyle a lot, because people were more focused on the fact that we wore our jerseys and not too much on the fact that my husband is not the greatest of dancers hahaha.

Link to S.W.A.T.T. Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=364185323725419&set=pb.159050880905532.-2207520000.1389418400.&type=3&theater

[HUGE Thank you to Adam Copeland Photography for ALL our wedding Pictures!!]

&& then of coarse came the HONEYMOON:

As I said in my old Blog, we were going on our First Cruise.!! IT WAS AMAZING, we went to Jamaica, Cozumel, and the Grand Cayman Islands!! -We did not go alone, we took friends and family and I would do it again!!! 

 swimming with stingrays

 stingray full body massage ;)

 "HAPPY HONEYMOON"

 Grand Cayman

 Vladimir and Kim (our servers every night)

 Dolphin Kiss

Holding hands with Dolphins

I could post pictures ALL day from this ;) (even though I haven't even put them on my Facebook yet)

We also bought our very first House.!!!

 Home Owners <3

 

We even happened to get there on a day when they were laying the concrete for the driveway and I kinda carved our names in it :)

I couldn't resist! 

What comes Next?

This is a "common" question... Now that we have taken all these huge steps in our lives people tend to ask What comes next? Well... for Kyle he is going to continue to work hard at his job and at being the best husband that he can be.  And for me, well, I am going to finish school and also work hard to be the best Wife that I can be.

The other common question... "When are you guys going to have a baby?"

NOW:

I love all of my friends and I love all of my friends babies, so this does not go against absolutely anybody... but I truly HATE that question.  I think it is one of those questions these days that should just be an unwritten law.. that you just do Not ask that question.

It should fall in the list of DO NOT ASK THIS:

"Omgsh you are showing... how far along are you?" -(uhm ive never been pregnant)

"You are eating a lot.. are you pregnant?" -(No, I just like food)

"You hang out with only boys, are you gay?" -(No, I just have friends)

"YOU JUST GOT MARRIED.. WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO HAVE A BABY?" -(don't ask)

I know that it is usually a Common thing, people:

Grow up...........................................

Get a career......................................

Get Married......................................

Buy a Car.........................................

Buy a House.....................................

*Have a BABY.................................

But as some of you know... that is not going to be any easy road for us, and I do not feel like I am alone in that situation, I feel like now a days that the chemicals in meat, and even the chemicals in birth control make the infertility rates go up! I feel like infertility is so much higher these days, than ever before. (these are my opinions...not statistics) 

for those of you who do not know.. here is a small summary of what is going on with my body.. I have what is called Premature Ovarian Failure (POF) it is commonly known as premature menopause. When a girl is born she is born with all the eggs she will ever have in her ovaries over the period of her life... menopause happens when all your eggs are gone. (you can not gain eggs in anyway) well with me the only thing is ... that they do not have a way to tell me if I have eggs or not, the way they retrieve a woman's eggs is by making their FSH levels really high, but from the results in my blood work my FSH levels are already very high. (I have been to many doctors, all with the same results and similar game plans)  Basically whenever we do decide that we are ready to have a baby we will need to get an egg donor... Which brings me back to:

WHAT COMES NEXT?

Well first of all I finish school like I said.

And then we will start our process in looking for an egg donor to donate her eggs in order for us to have a Baby.. so the question is... "You guys just got married, when will you have a baby?" I do not know exactly how long the process will take to look and find an egg donor but my estimated guess as to when we will START "TRYING" is going to be (around) May 2015... meaning we hope to have a baby sometime in 2016.